If you cant trust your friends around your man then why is she your friend?

I am a firm believer in having my friends and the man in my life get along. I never understood why women go to lengths to keep their men and women apart, if your lack of trust for one of them is the reason then what are they in your life? A man is going to cheat no matter how much you keep him under lock and key. I can never have someone in my life that i cant trust around my man. maybe i will be setting my self up for failure but don't I fail if i cant trust these two individuals?

Love can make some lose their commen sense.

While many view love as a good thing at times i wonder just how good love really is? Love can change a person and have he/she do things they are not used to doing. Love can make someone lose their morals. I have heard of women stay in relationship when their significant other has cheated on them and the reason behind it is because they love them and want to make it work. Women and men have done things that in the past they said they wouldn't do all in the name of love. Women stay in abusive relationships because they love their man and know that their men love them. I guess love hurts too ( physically that is). Love is a double edge sword and no matter how much one wants to deny it, there are ugly things done in the name of love!