Why cant some ladies act like ladies...

It boggles my mind when i see certain things specifically in the club scene. Why is it so foreign for some ladies to act as such. It annoys me to see women tramping themselves up for attention. There is a such thing as negative attention and usually that's what they are getting. Then when the end of the night comes they wonder why they are getting men taking them home wanting to have sex with them verses asking them to lunch the next day. It saddens me to see some of the women i see in person as well as in pictures, to have your crouch, behind, and boobs plastered all over the net b/c you were acting crazy in the club has to be embarrassing. right?